BDSM For Beginners: DOMINATION

If your closest approach to BDSM has been “50 Shades of Grey” so far, don’t worry! We will change this situation immediately. Today we’ll teach you the basics of BDSM so you can treat all those “slaves” like the true goddess you are.

What the hell is BDSM and WHY you may be interested

The acronym BDSM refers to Bondage, Domination, Submission, and Masochism. It’s all about sexual practices that involve dominant/submissive dynamics. Each of the partners takes on one of these roles. In this article, we’ll focus on your dominant role.

You already might know that LuckyCrush is full of submissive guys waiting to be dominated. If you’re up to date with this practice, you’ll be prepared when you meet them. And you can trust us when we say you will enjoy it.

A Little Education: BDSM Vocabulary and Practices

When you give instructions to your submissives, there must not be even a hint of hesitation in your words. Familiarize yourself with basic English BDSM vocabulary to capture the submissive’s full attention:

  • A submissive is a person being humiliated by a Dominant. It can also be referred to as a slave, bottom, or Sub. You, as a Dominant, can call him slave, sissy, dog, puppy, bitch, stupid/little bitch, servant, little boy, pig, slut, little slut, loser, etc. You can be very creative here, taking into account the context. Personalize the names to make the submissive’s experience much more pleasurable.
  • Dominant refers to the person who humiliates the submissive. It can also be referred to as a Top or Dom. As dominant, you must make your submissive refers to you as a master or mistress, goddess or queen, Madame or Domme. It may be a good reason to punish your submissive if he dares to call you by a name you have not allowed him to use.
  • CBT. Cock and ball torture. This game can start gently by telling them to tie their balls until they hit very hard on their balls and cock. Be gradual. You can use it as a punishment for being a “naughty boy.”
  • A Cock Cage is a chastity device that surrounds the penis and holds it at a downward angle. The goal is to not allow for masturbation or penile stimulation. It makes an erection uncomfortable and, often, impossible. Only you can decide when to unlock his penis. Maybe when you want to compensate them for being an “attentive submissive.”
  • Cross-dressing and feminization. These practices go almost hand in hand. Feminization is typically achieved through cross-dressing. The submissive wear traditionally female clothing. It may also involve the adoption of traditionally feminine behaviors and mannerisms. Feminization is, first and foremost, a humiliation for your submissives.
  • Facesitting, when you literally sit on your submissive’s face. If they’re good boys, they can get a good shot of your ass on camera as if you were sitting on their face.
  • Foot fetish. In the world of BDSM, the feet play a vital role. You can place your feet in front of the camera for your submissive to kiss or lick. You can also pretend to step on their face. You can even turn them on by stepping on a pillow as if it were their face.
  • A Gag is a piece of cloth, an object, or a device that is placed in or over a person’s mouth to prevent them from speaking. The person wearing the gag is considered the submissive partner. Be creative because here, you can make them put their underpants in their mouth or some object you see on their camera.
  • J.O.I. Jerking Off Instructions. This fetish consists of verbal and sometimes visual instructions on how a man is supposed to masturbate and when he is supposed to orgasm, if at all.
  • Pegging is when the dominant wears a strap-on dildo and performs anal sex. You can also command him to suck your dildo. With this type of sexual harness, the Dominant is in control.
  • Punishment. BDSM punishments can be as fun or serious as you want them to be. Restrictive punishments involve the dominant temporarily taking away something the submissive likes, like forbidding the sub to make eye contact for a set amount of time or touching themselves. You also can use TBC or pegging to punish them. You can regulate the intensity of the punishments and ” treats ” during the session until they cum.
  • The Safeword is a gesture or word used to slow down the rhythm during practice, decrease its intensity, or directly stop it.
  • Smoking fetish. We do not recommend smoking to anyone, but this fetish is a good complement if you are already a smoker. From smoking in the face of your submissive to flicking the ashes in his face. Avoid making a mess by having an ashtray that tackles those ashes. We don’t want any devices to get hurt.
  • Tit Torture focuses solely on inflicting pain on the chest, nipple, and areola for sexual gratification. You can ask him to pinch his nipples and then tell him to use his nipple clamps. You can use them for the first phase of the game or save them to add more pleasure to the moment of climax.

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And how do you play this game?

Certainly no two people have the same experience of BDSM and its practices. But for now, let’s generalize a bit and try to get an idea of what a BDSM session with a LuckyCrush user might be like. We recommend being a “soft dom” for starters.

Dom/Sub Relationship

Your sub must obey your orders and do what you ask him. If he doesn’t obey, the punishment will be a thrilling experience. But it is not about giving random commands and disengaging. This experience requires 100% of your attention and involvement.

The first thing is to know your submissive. Ask him how he likes to play with his cock, if he likes pain, if he has a toy. All the toys you see on the scene are waiting for your commands in a gradually way. Pay attention to his facial expressions and body language, as they will be your guide . Thus, the game will progress satisfactorily for both of you. Generally, they will not be able to cum unless you allow them to. Until then, there may be a prolonged dynamic of tension and play.

Dominant character on BDSM

BDSM sessions should be very gradual. Your satisfaction as a Dominant resides in prolonging your submissive’s arousal. Your body language should be confident and imposing. If you have the chance, use your voice, which should always be firm. Do not apologize unless it is strictly necessary. Don’t get stuck in just being “mean.” Always be very balanced. You can use sweet and confident words like “good boy” or “good job” when they obey you. But don’t use “bby”, “pls”, “mmmm” and so on. It has to be demanding but somewhat sexy and sweet at the same time. The entire thing about being a dom is not necessarily that you must look like you don’t care about them. The “key” is to be caring, but strict. This is how you create that addiction.

Humiliation: Shame Can Be So Stimulating

Dom/sub BDSM

Many people who enjoy erotic humiliation are often in positions of relative power in their everyday lives. So they are waiting for someone to overpower them and tell them what to do. Erotic humiliation can also be a beneficial moment of catharsis for the person doing the humiliating. So it’s a win-win.

For this, words can be very powerful. The possibilities are endless if you are creative and involved in the practice. Here you have a few examples in English: “with that ugly dick you can never fuck a girl”, “omg, you are such a sissy”, “small dick means fucking loser”, “you are my bitch now”, “you are such a loser that you will never be able to satisfy me,” “you don’t even deserve my humiliation because you can’t even satisfy me,” “you are pathetic,”etc.

Ask them to get down on their knees, doggy style, stick out their tongue like a dog, pant like a dog, and laugh at them. Make them kiss your feet. Force them to beg on their knees to see your pussy or tits. Some users enjoy not seeing anything explicit from you as long as you fulfill your role. You can also make them beg you to humiliate them. The point of humiliation is that you enjoy doing it as much as they enjoy being humiliated. So, this is your time to have fun!

A submissive beginner

BDSM first time

Many users enter LuckyCrush to explore their submissive side for the first time and your approach should be much softer. You can start with gentle play like CBT and explore different levels of pain. You can also try the J.O.I. (Jerking Off Instructions) fetish. Tell him what he should call you. Try different names for him, and see which one he reacts most. Ask him to do more kinky things when he is most aroused. If you see that something is not working, go back to the moment where your submissive was most aroused. You can use this rule with any type of submissive.

“How should I look?”

BDSM looks

We associated the image of a dominant woman in black leather, high heels, and red lipstick. And of course you can look like that, but the truth is that there is no specific pattern. For example, guys love when an innocent-looking girl treats them like “losers.” As well as being dominated by a woman with a bad bitch face. At the end, knowing how to read the user is the most important thing here. Submissives users are usually very grateful users and return again and again when they feel they have satisfied their kink.

Tell us in our Telegram group if you have already tried this practice. If you haven’t yet, we hope this intro to BDSM will encourage you to do so 💜

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