Getting nexted can be very frustrating and annoying. But you can always do something about it! That’s why today we explain the reasons why this may be happening. And in addition, we bring you a guide with basic steps to help you get out of this non-desired situation.
“Why am I getting nexted?”
It is important to understand that getting “nexted” means that guys choose to stay with someone else. Yes, it’s as simple as that. Let’s take a closer look at the factors that make the user choose someone other than you.
“I have done everything, and nothing works!”
Be honest with yourself. Are you in a hurry to make your money and it shows? Not in the mood to go online? Check your mood first and ask yourself if you are being patient enough to be online. If you find that nothing is working for you, there’s something you must be missing.
You must know that statically, guys spend the same or more time on the site everyday. To be “lucky” enough, you must be prepared for luck to find you. You should consider the four essential factors: Attitude, Outfit, Lighting, and Background.
Stop getting nexted and start getting chosen
The ATTITUDE
First of all: Recognize what attitude you are having in front of the camera. Several times we have seen many girls looking tired, distracted, disinterested, bored, or even checking their notifications! Believe us, this is the least attractive to users. And it is no coincidence that they are often the lowest earners on the site. If you’re not in the mood and are getting nexted, come back later.
A “bad bitch” attitude is not the same as a non-caring attitude. Looking at your cell phone or a video instead of the camera is not the same that having a smile while you look at the camera. Everyone has their own style, so try to match it with a welcoming attitude. Trust us, the user perceives and apreciates this.
The OUTFIT
You’re the first to know what to wear that best suits you. On camera, you should consider if the color of your outfit is enough eye-catching, if it doesn’t blend in with the background and if it enhances your figure. Does the outfit match the image you want to project?
The outfit is so critical that it can even impact your mood. To learn more about the impact of the colors of your outfit, take a look at this article:
⭐️The Best Colours To Wear On Camera!🌈👗
The LIGHTING to not getting nexted
Identify if you are making the most common mistakes in your lighting and angles and correct them if necessary. We are not talking about professional lighting; pay attention to the guide because you can improve on many levels with a few small touches:
⭐️Click here to check the most complete guide to lighting 💡
You can be the most attractive to the user. But if you don’t have the proper lighting and camera angles, the user will hardly be able to perceive it.
The BACKGROUND to not getting nexted
Maybe your attitude, outfit, and lighting are appropriate, but your background might look cluttered and not pleasing to the user’s eye. Check that you have no visual noise in your background. Is your background neat, warm, and has personality? Or, on the contrary, it looks cold, cluttered, and with nothing to say?
Take a look to the following article. It will help you to take care of all the necessary details to have the well-known “the girl next door” background:
⭐️Click here to create the perfect webcam background 👩💻
A little help: Telegram Bot Notifications
Start paying attention to Bot notifications in Telegram. If you are getting nexted, you can come back at another time when the Bot notifies you that there are more users waiting to match in the queue. This way, you will have more chances to match with users!
Let’s talk about connection issues
If you only see the loading spinner with your chat partners and not their webcam image, you are having a bad connection. In this case, try connecting to a VPN. Here are our recommendations:
- expressvpn.com
- cyberghostvpn.com
- protonvpn.com
If that also doesn’t help, you should do offline for a while.
Recap
See if you have the right mood to be online. Take a look at your attitude, outfit, lighting, and background. If you’re in a hurry to make your money, make it unnoticeable to users. If “nothing works,” don’t take it personal, come back later when there are other types of users, and you feel better.
Pay attention to the Bot notifications on our Telegram channel, as they will tell you when more users are waiting for a match in the queue. If you think you are experiencing connection issues, try connecting to a VPN. Plus, take a look to the ⭐️TIPS category of the blog⭐️ to get more inspired.
Tell us in our Telegram group what you do when you are getting nexted. We love to hear from you! 💜
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